4. She shares the same values as him.
“I remembered hearing once that a husband and wife share the same values,” describes a man in his early 30s. When you laugh at the same humor or get irritated at the same nonsense as he does, he’ll realize that you may be able to share the same values in life. Of course, don’t just blindly agree with everything. He’ll find it not only superficial but unstimulating, as well.