9. Give him two options to choose from, such as “Do you want to clean up the room together, or do you want to go out?”
“If I suggest a chore that’s more bothersome than going out, he would generally choose the more fun option (LOL).” With this approach, you urge him to get into action by letting him choose between the two options you’ve suggested. This is an easy-to-use tactic for couples that live together.