3. He’s just thinking, “I want to be her friend!”
Some guys have no underlying motivations. As one reader states, “I don’t necessarily want to date a pretty girl. Sometimes I think it would just be nice to have her as a friend.” This might be a common mindset for guys who are philosophical and cool. However, this does not mean that he doesn’t find his girlfriend pretty. Try to avoid getting upset and blaming him for this attitude; otherwise, you could get into an unnecessary argument.