7. That you make more money than he does.
This is one secret that has the potential to hurt his pride. Even though he’ll know deep down it’s nothing to feel bad about, he’ll still experience a strange mix of discomfort and embarrassment. On another scenario, one woman commented, “He started sponging off of me ever since I told him how much I make,” so note that your high income could actually make him abandon his pride instead. That’s two outcomes to worry about! If you know that he doesn’t rake in much, keep money out of the conversation.