8. You are reluctant to meet with your boyfriend
“She doesn’t even contact me on her days off.” “She gives me vague reasons, like she’s sleepy or tired, to decline my invitations.” “When I messaged her to go out for a meal, she responded right away, saying, ‘I’m too lazy.’” We heard this complaint voiced often. Guys seem to have an expectation that if their girlfriend likes them, she will make an effort to see them. Try to give your boyfriend honest explanations, depending on your situation. If your boyfriend is smart, he will understand why you couldn’t see him even if you wanted to.