4. She turns off her cell and cuts off all contact
“Every time she does that, I get worried sick about her.” He will eventually get fed up with this behavior and leave you alone in your own world. If you want to shut out the world for a while for whatever reason, give him a head’s up that you want to be left alone and that you will be out of reach for a while. He will respect your choice, and he won’t have to worry about you having an affair.