9 new behaviors that will shock you about your boyfriend once you start dating

9. I thought he was a cool and silent type. It turns out he was only shy and had no confidence in speaking.

These are the guys who seemed cool and quiet, but were really just shy. A cool guy might be a man of few words, but he can confidently state his own opinion. It might be a good idea to try asking for advice, to see if he can talk about what he really thinks, and then decide if he’s worth the risk.