4. “If you could go anywhere in the world right now, where would you go?” Talk about “what if” situations.
“It doesn’t cost anything to use your imagination, and it also gives me a good sense of who he is and what he values,” a woman in her early 30s shares, speaking from her experience. Because people often reveal more when they’re talking about their dreams and wishes, it’s a good opportunity to get to know them. If you identify with what he likes and dislikes, it’s a pretty good indicator that your values are similar to one another’s.