9 Things Guys Secretly Find Attractive About a Plain “Girl Next Door”

9. She’s humble and refined.


“Self-centered and opinionated girls are kind of a turn-off. I feel like girls actually stand out more when they show humility and are considerate of the people around them.” A lot of men find a reserved, graceful attitude to be very feminine. While you should always voice important opinions, reserved women seem skilled at speaking out when it counts, without making others feel uncomfortable.