5 Things You Can Do to Be More Proactive in Love

3. Join a meetup, like a study or volunteer group, where you can meet good guys.

You might meet and fall in love with a go-getter when you join a meetup that attracts serious-minded people. “If I join a study group, I could probably meet guys who are not just looking for a hookup,” a woman in her 20s mentioned. If your goal is to date someone, you could even attend a singles party in your area.