5 Secrets to a Happy Relationship, According to Women Who’ve Been in One for More Than Two Years

5. Put yourself in his shoes, and don’t force your ideas on him.


One secret to a long-lasting relationship is to treat each other as equals. “You won’t get anywhere trying to control your partner. It’s important to respect one another as adults,” a woman in her 20s advised. It’s important to be aware that you are both independent individuals, and that your partner does not belong to you.