2. You bump into him often.
“At work, my office is located on a different floor, but I always run into her on the elevator. We bump into each other so often, we’ve started to chat in the elevator,” tells a man in his late 20s. Coincidences in life can make him consider that there’s a potential for you to be more than just a colleague. You could, of course, learn of his whereabouts and plan to bump into him often, but be careful how you carry that out. If he discovers that you have meticulously planned these “accidental” encounters, he may accuse you of stalking him.