3. When her boyfriend is busy, a committed girlfriend will worry about his well-being, while a needy girlfriend will ask him to choose between her and his work.
Complaining to your tired boyfriend will make you more needy than committed. “I want her to put herself in my shoes. People are complaining to me at work and in private,” explained a guy in his 20s. Put yourself in your boyfriend’s shoes, so you know how you should approach the situation.