9 Secret, Skillful Ways that Lovey-dovey Couples Fight

3. When things start to get heated, suggest that you pause for a bit


“When the fight gets heated things get out of control, so we always take a deep breath before that happens.” This strategy requires you to cool down before anger sets in so you can avoid a huge fight. With that said, this won’t work unless one side stays calm, so it is also necessary to set a rule for yourself not to get too emotional.