9 Phrases Guys Say the First Time You Have Sex with Them That Are Major Turn Offs

When you’re having sex with a guy for the first time, the wrong phrase can turn a heated, sexy night upside down. An insensitive remark from a man can damage a woman’s self-esteem. If you’ve ever experienced this, you’re not alone. We surveyed our female readers to bring you nine phrases that guys say the first time you have sex with them that are major turn offs.

1. “Having sex with you feels just as good as a having sex with a fleshlight.”

“I don’t want my body compared to an object.” Girls will get angry if they feel like they’re just being compared to the guys favorite sex toy. If your man ever tries to compare you to a toy, just tell him, “Then why don’t you just use your fleshlight instead of having sex with me?” This will make him realize how insensitive he was.