7. Forcing his penis in deeper during a blowjob
“It makes me think he doesn’t care about me.” The emotional pain, which is far worse than the physical pain, will make her question whether he even loves her in the first place. If your guy is insensitive to your feelings, make him do foreplay on you, get him hard, and then withhold sex. This will teach him a lesson on how it feels to be treated selfishly.