9. Girls who try too hard to make things sexual.
“I really don’t like it when girls start telling sex stories out of nowhere,” said one guy. It can be a turn off when girls try too hard to move conversation in a sexual direction. If you start with an innocent question like “When was your first kiss?” and then gradually move things to more sexual topics, that could be a more natural approach.
Sexy gestures that are too over the top seem to have the opposite effect on guys. Everyone has their own unique personality. If you’re not really a sexy type of girl, it might be good to try an approach that pairs a pure exterior with sexy elements for an unexpected surprise. A girl who’s soft-spoken and dresses elegantly but is wearing red underwear is one example.