9 Methods Girls Use to Increase Their Sex Appeal that Send Guys Running in the Other Direction

9. Girls who try too hard to make things sexual.

“I really don’t like it when girls start telling sex stories out of nowhere,” said one guy. It can be a turn off when girls try too hard to move conversation in a sexual direction. If you start with an innocent question like “When was your first kiss?” and then gradually move things to more sexual topics, that could be a more natural approach.

Sexy gestures that are too over the top seem to have the opposite effect on guys. Everyone has their own unique personality. If you’re not really a sexy type of girl, it might be good to try an approach that pairs a pure exterior with sexy elements for an unexpected surprise. A girl who’s soft-spoken and dresses elegantly but is wearing red underwear is one example.