9 Ways to Reaffirm Your Love for Your Boyfriend When You’re Tempted to Cheat

7. Talk to a trusted friend to calm yourself down

“After I hear it from someone else, I remember, ‘Of course, he’s the only one for me.’” Listening to a third party can help you make rational judgments. Don’t pick someone who you know just goes along with what you say. Instead, choose someone you trust to speak their mind.