9 Ways to Reaffirm Your Love for Your Boyfriend When You’re Tempted to Cheat

6. Think realistically about the consequences of cheating

“In the future, it would be best to have stability…” Some girls calm their feelings by picturing what would happen in the future if they gave in to temptation. It’s true that if you’re optimistic you may think, “It’ll probably work out somehow!” However, if you’re the cautious type, this method should be effective.