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9. You often refer to your past relationship trauma

“I don’t want to hear it anymore. There is nothing I can do about it.” You are barking up the wrong tree by explaining your past traumatic events to your current boyfriend. If you can’t overcome past traumas and focus on your new relationship, he might view you as emotionally unstable. It is wise to deal with those bad memories and permanently move on from them.