6. Get to know what he doesn’t like about his “main chick” and work to improve these areas
“It’s best to compete with qualities that are lacking in my opponent!” Even if your rival seems perfect, you can always spot her shortcomings if you go looking for them. Then, focus on these areas when you make your approach and show him how charming you are. However, being just a little bit better than her will not help you win his heart. Develop qualities that are unique to you before using this tactic.