5. Get him to focus on the future: “I think we should wait until we get married to move in together, so we have something to look forward to.”
“I don’t want to be harsh, but I don’t think it’s right to move in together just because it happened.” If you want your boyfriend to slow down, you can bring up your potential future together. If your boyfriend is serious about marrying you, he will be more careful and take his time.