9 Things You Can Say to Maintain a Healthy Distance When Your Boyfriend Always Wants to Spend Time Together

2. Send him home to prepare for a visitor: “I want to come to your place next time.”

“I can decide when to leave if I’m staying over at his place.” Some women try to be in control by arranging a sleepover at their boyfriend’s house. Changing your sleepover environment can also prevent it from becoming routine.