3. Out of the blue, tell him you want to see him.
“It caught me by surprise, and I started to wonder if everything was okay with her,” a concerned man in his early 30s tells us. When you can’t hold it inside anymore, tell him that you need to see him. He’ll take your message as a cry for help. The more confident and strong-willed you usually are, the more motivated he’ll be to re-work his schedule so that he can come and see you.