9 Things Guys Want to Try to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom

4. Have her do cosplay


“It’s a turn-on to see a different side of her in a different outfit.” Using cosplay outfits could restore that “butterflies in the stomach” feeling you used to have in the early stages of the relationship. If going all out in cosplay is still uncomfortable for you, you can take things slow by starting with some sexy lingerie/leggings or even knee-high socks.