Home Things You Can Say During Sex to Heat Things Up 9 Moments Men Feel Loved and Happy During Sex 9. When she verbally expresses her love and affection “I really think she means it.” This will hit a man hard, especially if you say things like “I love you so much” during sex. Look him in the eyes directly when you say it to make his night. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9