9 Things Submissive Men Want Their Dominant Partner to Do in Bed

2. Making him get into a humiliating position, like going on all fours

“It’s even better when she gives out orders aggressively.” It’s a turn-on for some men during foreplay to have their penis fondled while in humiliating positions. If you make him face up like an upside-down frog, that might be as humiliating as well.