7. Asking to take a video of yourselves having sex
“Saying, ‘I won’t show anyone so it’s okay?’ is not an excuse. It gives me chills just imagining someone coming across the footage.” Most girls will be extremely turned off by the risk of the video being exposed, and they’re usually not up for filming such private scenes. Unless she asks you to, it’s best to assume that your partner won’t be comfortable with being filmed.