9 ways to make a boyfriend realize, when he’s thinking of breaking up, that “You’re still the best!”

3. When he realizes how kind she is when she smiles and accepts all of his selfish little acts

“When I would wake her up late at night and say, ‘Let’s go get something to eat,’ she would agree without even a hint of displeasure, and that’s when I understood how much she loved me.” The capacity to smile and be accepting of his behavior, even when he’s being rather manipulative, is very reassuring to a guy. When a relationship becomes strained, having the kindness to stay calm can often be the key to finding a solution.