3. When he realizes how kind she is when she smiles and accepts all of his selfish little acts
“When I would wake her up late at night and say, ‘Let’s go get something to eat,’ she would agree without even a hint of displeasure, and that’s when I understood how much she loved me.” The capacity to smile and be accepting of his behavior, even when he’s being rather manipulative, is very reassuring to a guy. When a relationship becomes strained, having the kindness to stay calm can often be the key to finding a solution.