9 Ways of Breaking Up that Try to Take the High Road but Make Him Think “I Wish She’d Just Said She Hated Me!”

8. A reason that doesn’t make any sense: “A lot of things are different now.”

“I just want to tell her ‘what’s changed is your feelings,’” said one guy. This method uses talking about things only you personally can understand as a way of making him feel confused. Prepare a reason in advance with a specific thing that’s changed so you can say something like “my job is different now, so…”