2. You make aggressive moves on him for a while, then leave him alone.
“I know it’s stereotypical, but it must drive him crazy not to have all the attention he’s been getting lately,” says a young woman who is confident about her tactics. You’ll be in the driver’s seat controlling how fast or slow things happen. He’ll get confused and come out of his shell. Still, you don’t want to reinforce his distrust of women by appearing too undependable, so be sensible.