9 Strategies to Remind Your Boyfriend of Your Appeal and Stop his Heart from Wandering

8. Open your heart to him about something you did in the past that you couldn’t tell anyone

“I felt like she really opened up to me, and it made me love her even more.” By laying bare your weaknesses to your boyfriend, you’re appealing to him with your vulnerable side. It’s best to let these things out in small amounts, though, so your boyfriend doesn’t pull back.