3. Being like this makes your boyfriend think you’re hiding something you’re unhappy about, or getting stressed out.
“She’s really holding herself back, you know?” said one guy. This shows that many guys feel that when girls are acting like this it’s a sign they’re pushing themselves too hard. Telling him exactly what’s bothering you rather than trying to be nice to your boyfriend to the extent that you suppress all of your own feelings and emotions could, over time, deepen the sense of trust in your relationship.