“I’ll make fool out of myself asking her out.” 5 Characteristics of Women Who Discourage Men from Asking Them Out

5. A woman who claims that she enjoys her time alone.

“I think she’s a very private person, and that’s fine with me,” says a man in his early 30s who has no desire to interfere with her personal life. If you send a vibe that you like being alone, of course men will assume that you’re not interested in being in a relationship. Be sure to add that you feel lonely sometimes, and give him an opportunity to ask you out.