5. When her current boyfriend is not motivated to work hard, and he doesn’t get any raises
“I worry about the future.” Some women feel anxious about the future of their relationship when their boyfriends lack motivation compared to their hard-working ex-boyfriends. Even if you don’t feel like working hard in your current job, show her that you are driven to overcome the challenges you face by saying something like, “I will treat you for something fancy in three years!”