7. “Your values don’t match up with mine.”
“I don’t know what to say. She wants to justify her own selfishness.” If you have absolutely no intention of conceding in an argument and you make no attempt to meet halfway, you could fan the flames of his anger. If your value systems are that different, you’ve probably argued a lot. But if you can say something nice and leave him appreciating the good times, he could at least view all your arguments and the breakup as water under the bridge.