9 Signs Your Long-Distance Boyfriend is Trying to Let the Relationship Fizzle Out

9. He urges you to get out and do something on your days off.

“When you want to break up, you worry that your girlfriend doesn’t have any interests besides you.” If he urges you to turn your attention to the world outside, you might wonder if he really has your best interests at heart. Suddenly showing tolerance he never did before (“Why not go to that mixer if they just need one more girl?”) falls under the same heading.