9 Signs Your Long-Distance Boyfriend is Trying to Let the Relationship Fizzle Out

6. It stops bothering him when you hang out with other guys.

“If the girl you love lives far away, you usually worry about that.” It can be a bad sign when he stops worrying about the guys you hang out with. There’s also the opposite approach, in which a guy deliberately acts jealous: “Wow, you really get along well with that guy at work, huh?” This lays the groundwork for a breakup under the pretext of stepping aside for your new love interest.