9 Signs Your Long-Distance Boyfriend is Trying to Let the Relationship Fizzle Out

7. You find out after the fact that he was somewhere nearby on business.

“If you go home for a business trip or funeral and don’t see your girlfriend, that’s the kiss of death.” If he’s in the area but he doesn’t stop by, that should tell you something. If he used to always make an effort to see you even when he was short on time, this is an extremely clear sign.