9 Ways to Ask Your Boyfriend Indirectly What He’s Secretly Into

2. Say in a self-doubting way, “I really like X—do you think that’s weird…?”

“I’d be hoping he’d say, ‘That’s not weird. I mean, I kind of like peach fuzz, too,’ or something like that.” Some girls prefer to confess their own fetishes first. If your preferences are a little out there—“I really like the smell of your underarms!”—then he may end up telling you some of his unusual fetishes, too.