9 Moments that Make Boyfriends Think “She Doesn’t Really Like Me, Does She?” and Get Depressed

7. When I found out she was going to lots of mixers and drinking parties.

“Even if I know she’s only socializing, if I find out she participated without telling me, it complicates things,” said one guy. Lots of guys are shocked if they find out their girlfriends have been out meeting people without mentioning it to them.