9 Moments that Make Boyfriends Think “She Doesn’t Really Like Me, Does She?” and Get Depressed

4. When she prioritizes going out with her female friends on a day off.

“When she starts spending more and more of her free time with friends, I think, ‘Her feelings for me aren’t what they used to be,’” said one guy. It seems there are a lot of guys that gauge the strength of their girlfriend’s feelings for them by the amount of time they spend together.