Home Manipulative Girls 9 Moments That Make a Man Think, “She’s Cold and Calculating” 5. When she tries to gain a man’s interest too obviously; for example, “I can’t open this can of juice” “I think she’s deliberately acting cute.” Pretending to need a man even for simple things is one of the most obvious games in the book. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9