Home Manipulative Girls 9 Moments That Make a Man Think, “She’s Cold and Calculating” 6. When she flatters a man for any little thing, like, “You look so young!” or “You’re amazing!” “When she goes over the top, it just sounds fake.” Exaggerated compliments don’t sound genuine, and men will have trouble believing you. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9