Home Guys Think They'Re Out Of Your League... 9 Things a Girl Can Say during a Date to Bring a Guy’s Excitement Level Crashing Down 9. “When I was with ◯◯, bad things would always happen.” When you take out your anger and vent at him just because things aren’t going your way, you can seriously damage his confidence. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9