9 Things a Girl Can Say during a Date to Bring a Guy’s Excitement Level Crashing Down

5. “I don’t want to go somewhere far away.”

“She always drags me wherever she wants to go, but when I suggest some place, she doesn’t ever agree. It makes me think she’s really selfish.” A one-sided effort to get what you want can drag a guy’s spirits down. If he lets you get away with it, don’t forget to appreciate his gesture with a little bit of kindness, like saying, “I’m sorry for always making you spoil me. Thank you.”