4. You often talk about how fulfilled your life is in your current state.
“When she shares how much she enjoyed her weekend alone or the wonderful solo trip she took, I feel that I shouldn’t bother her with a dinner invitation,” explains a discouraged young man. If your life is as perfect as it sounds, it leaves no room for him to try to be a part of your life. By adding comments such as, “It would be so much more fun if I had someone by my side next time,” you’ll start to see more invitations.