“I’m not sure if she’s interested…” 5 Characteristics That Deter Men from Asking You Out

4. You often talk about how fulfilled your life is in your current state.

“When she shares how much she enjoyed her weekend alone or the wonderful solo trip she took, I feel that I shouldn’t bother her with a dinner invitation,” explains a discouraged young man. If your life is as perfect as it sounds, it leaves no room for him to try to be a part of your life. By adding comments such as, “It would be so much more fun if I had someone by my side next time,” you’ll start to see more invitations.