8 Things That Happen When Your Crush Finally Talks to You, and He Finds out You’re Not What He Imagined

2. When they find out all you do is complain

Men will quickly stop fantasizing about you when they find out all you do is complain. No one feels good after listening to someone complain all day, not to mention they might get worried that someday they might be the target of your criticisms. Leave the complaining for when you’re drinking wine with your girlfriends on a Tuesday night.